Well I will give you ahighlight of my life. I have been married to my husband for three years but we have been together for 6. He has two daughters from a previous marriage we get every other weekend. They are 10 and 12 and we have together a 1 1/2 year old daughter. We have always had problems with ex wife she still calls starts things about needing more money or about what the girls come home telling her. They tell her everyhting what we have and if we have a disagreement.I feel like she has a window in my world and I hateeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! that this is my life and she is not married to him anymore i wish she would stay out of my life.We always pay childsupport on time we never mistreat them and still we are bad people to his girls and his ex wife she his married to my husbands ex wife and they have a child together that is why my husband and her divorced becuase she was screwing around on him. He easliy forgives his children i guess that the unconditional love but it not that easy for me i have seen how many time they have hurt him and me and he has been saying for six years they are just kids and i need to be an adult about it and forget it and i cant because it keeps n and on.I have gotten better about keeping thing more an secret when they are around. Now that we have a child everyone says you treat her different then your step kids damn right because she loves me and i know it they say they do and hurt my feeling by saying something mean to me or going home and saying hoe mean their daddy is. Everyone always against me I have tried so many years to fit in and to be loved by them and i was alway the fifth wheel.But when i had a kid evryone wanted to try to include me and its too late i found someone to love me which is my kid. my husband and I fight everytime they come over or call he says i said this in a mean way to or He says you dont care about my kids or if i displine verbally never physically he says dont do that i say you do it he says well i can their my kid okay well what the hell do you want then either their all yours or you can share them. I love my husband so much. It is so hard to be in a marriage with someone elses kids thre is always problems. God says he never gives us what we cant handle sometimes i cant handle it. Im tired of fighting with someone who has never had to walk a day in my shoes and will never know what it feels like to betrayed and hurt. I love my little girl so much not just cause shes mine because i know she loves me.I;m so sorry that i cant love your children like that and it noet because their not mine it because they dont love me they say it but actions speak louder than words. My husband thinks i make things up in my head but i see it all clearly.You know his ex wife even has the nerve to calla nd tell me how to raise my child like I didnt let his children walk around with my baby when she was a newborn and she called and said well you know that is there sisiter and she is my kid and not yours. THIS TIME I HAVE A SAY SO IN A CHILD LIFE WHICH IS MY OWN SHILD> MY HUSBAND IS NEVER ON MY SIDE HE IS ALWAYS ON HIS CHILDREN SIDE NO MATTER Is SAID OR DONE>