Hi

Can anyone help?

I have two step kids and have informed them in the last few weeks that they're going to have a new brother / sister on the way. The stepson was fine about it but my step daughter not so much.

She was quite shocked when she first found out but just recently she's been saying quite spiteful things like "when 'that thing' is born, you'll both change" and "I'll always be daddy's little girl". The relationship was good before this happened but it seems to have gone downhill since then,. It has taken a while to conceive this baby and I've having had one miscarriage, I've finally been blessed. I just feel hurt that she's like this and I feel we are distancing even more.

Anyone else been in similar situation? I've just been asked by my husband whether I want to do a girly shopping day with her but I honestly don't. I would have done before when times were ok but not now whilst I'm feeling so resented,

Any advice would be greatly appreciated!