Got a new phone yesterday, and while customizing settings this morning, saw that I had 9 blocked text msgs from exH that transferred over, and 2 blocked text msgs from exSS, now almost 24. Stupid me, I read'em.

The msgs from exH were all "I miss you" flavor. The two from exSS23, who got kicked out from my home in late August 2018 (as documented here) were:

I'm so full of resentment and anger that I'm ready to end it.  A little background... I am 49 and have 3 grown children 26,28,30. I have been with my husband almost 7yrs. He has 2 girls..8 and 12. Their bio mom has only been in their lives for the last couple years. So I was the one who potty trained..taught to shower, tie shoes, read, etc etc. My husband had to work out of town alot. At first it was only suppose to be a week. Then a week turned into months, then a year. I made it clear that I didn't want to raise anymore children. But somehow I have become the only parent.

Hey everyone. I'm new here. I'm newly married and a mom to my infant son and step mom to SD 7. We have been in each other's lives for about 2 years now. My DH has custody due to BMs history of drug use and instability. BM currently has most weekends and has more time in the summer. BM has always wanted full custody and SD wants that too. BM says she has been clean for probably a year and a half now.

Just a little bit of an update.

Last night, while driving Munchkin home from her gmas house, we got into one of our many anti-Feral Forger conversations. We seem to get caught up these tense feedback loops whereby she will go into details of how lazy, mean and rude her sister is. And then reminisce about her past transgressions. I can see that she is hurt, and resentful. Shes normally so sweet and loving, and I think sometimes I encourage this releasing of resentment, because she feels safe with me and because I lived it too at one time.

Without going through the 6 years of  stress with my husbands ex and kids I am needing advice to help with my resentment.

I hate the way my husbands kids treat him. One minute all is ok but then they'll igniore him or talk through message to him like something they've stood in. This is how it's been for too long now.

It's very obvious he's now only seen when they want something.

He does see this too but as he says he's there Dad.

Hello I’m new to all of this and I mean ALL of this.Im 22 been with my boyfriend for about four years he never told me he had a son then I found out months later his son is 3 then months later he had went to jail and his mother slipped up and said he had a daughter too!!I felt..boy I can’t even explain I was just like wow and obviously pissed.so his daughter is 3 as well two different moms.he apologized when confronted and at first I felt okay with his kids but he started to treat me like I was an outsider like when we’d fight half the time over stuff he does he’d snatch his son from away f