I recently married my DH of three years.  We moved in two months before getting married.  I have one daughter that is 10 and he has three daughters that are 22,20 and 13.  There little sister -8 (ex-wifes daughter) also comes along to from time to time too.  My issue is with the eldest two still coming every weekend from Friday to Sunday.  We live in a two bedroom apartment that gets really cramped.  When they all come its six of us in tight space with one bathroom.

Without going through the 6 years of  stress with my husbands ex and kids I am needing advice to help with my resentment.

I hate the way my husbands kids treat him. One minute all is ok but then they'll igniore him or talk through message to him like something they've stood in. This is how it's been for too long now.

It's very obvious he's now only seen when they want something.

He does see this too but as he says he's there Dad.