I am enganged to a mand with a daughter 15 and son 23.  I have a daughter 18 and a son 15.  Last night just took the cake for me.  My SO and I have been working hard toovercome the "blended family issues".  BM is toxic and SD is constantly helping BM to interfere in our lives.  Last night SD refuses to come to my home so she calls her dad to tell him how she made plans for then for Thanksgiving.  SD planned for her, her father, her best friend, and her best friends mom to spend Thanksgiving together without me and my children.  That just truly takes the cake with how SD is causing problems

This is my first time. I found myself Googling "my step daughter and I do not like each other" late last night and came across this site. Started reading a few entries and decided to sign up. 

I don't really know what all the abbreviations mean yet, I'm sure it'll come with time so I will be using the long versions and testing the others haha