Ok so I was here venting at the time about my BF's daughter.  I got away from that mess.  I have just found out that his daughter(16 in 2 months) has totally crossed all possible boundaries and he is sitting st home havign panic attacks becasuse she ran away instead of "allowing" her father to ground her.  This just goes to show that his failure to parent his daughter and BM's influence on his daughter is ruining his life and he is allowing it.  Well, here is the story:

MY doctor finally cleared my for full duty at work!!!  I will not longer be on light duty and will be able to continue my cognitive therapy on my regular days off.  It feels so good to walk without a walker/cane, more than I had imagined it would.  Now, onward amd upward.  It is getting better.

I can only hope that the past week has been a begining of a change but I'm not getting my hopes up.  Ok, SD15 planned 5 days at her BM's.  Well, SD came home early unexpectedly and without notice.  My SO was surprised as well as myself and my kids (DD18 and DS15).  SD was acting kind and reserved.  She was social and did not demand ALL attention on her.  I was shocked and so was my SO.  The day SD left for BM's he sat her down and gave her a firm talkingto about who is in charge and who she is living with now.  I do not know what happened at BM house but I do like the difference I see.