I thought I would share this blog to hopefully help someone else and also for myself to reflect back on if I ever need.

Nearly 4 years ago I started dating my full time partner with 2 sons (aged 3 and 5). We were distant friends for many many years before then but it never went over platonic until we started meeting up properly as friends. Well, never wanting kids or a partner blew up in my face and we ended up dating.