My DH has sole physical custody of his(our)daughter and tries desperately to coparent with his ex but she wants nothing to do with it. She doesnt want to be a mom, as a matter of fact SD7 calls her by name and me mom. BM parents want a redo bc they raised such a fantastic daughter (sarcasm intended) and are forcing BM to maintain custody. BM refers everything to her parents , we send a message grandma sends response. We are currently taking her, them, back to court to modify custody and it just frustrates me that they think we are being unfair.