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SD is Pushing it Tonight
SD has a cold. She ran around all weekend with her friends, went shopping and worked last night. Today she decides she's too sick to go to school. DH gave in and let her stay home. Its a sore topic with me. I don't agree with letting kids skip school and have always imposed the too sick for school too sick for work and fun. PERIOD.
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So Ready for the Snow to stop
Snow coming again. They are saying we are going to get 5-8 inches. They've already begun with the travel advisories. Most likely will be snowed in again tomorrow.
I would rather do about anything than stay home and watch DH treat SD like she is 3 instead of 18. I'm annoyed with him right now and I don't think I can keep my mouth shut.
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Progress but I feel like such a nag
After our last incident with SD I had a long talk with DH. I let him know I was at my breaking point as far as SD was concerned. Most of her issues I do not get involved in. DH handles it. In many ways he's stricter than I would be. But he would say that SD needs stricter rules because of her history of making bad decisions. The one area where he isn't as strict is in the area of household chores and it drives me crazy.
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I've had enough
Over the last two weeks things have gotten much worse. SD's recent behavior and the lack of consequences imposed by DH make me question whether it is worth the effort.
Last week DH told me he and SD were going to the mall to exchange shoes that each of them got as Christmas gifts. SD was returning the shoes that I had picked out that without even taking them out of the box on Christmas announced to the whole room she didn't like them. DH's were a gift that didn't fit.
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Snowed In
I'm snowed in with DH and SD. SD came home at 4 yesterday and has left her room three times. Each time because DH didn't answer her text or call when she wanted something. She gets off work early DH can barely get her because the roads are so bad. Two hours later she is asking can I go get something to eat. DH says no we barely made it home no one is leaving tonight unless it's an emergency.
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Big surprise SD showed her ass
After telling everyone she didn't like her gifts SD threw a fit because DH told her she couldn't go to a friends on Christmas Eve. She actually said "so I'm stuck here for three hours with nothing to do."
Meanwhile bs, his girlfriend and bd were picking up the mess in the living room while DH and I put away food and cleaned the kitchen. Ummm I've got an idea, perhaps you could make a contribution to the household.
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Now DH and I are Fighting
I have a final for my MBA class and a project due this week. He asked me if I could make time to go to his moms this week. I told him I don't know. I'm very tired since I was woken up at 4:30 in the morning by his daughter that has never learned about personal boundaries. Now is not a good time to ask me for a favor.
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Really???
SD came back last night after spending a week with BM. Of course DH had to drop her off and pick her up. Oh and he had to go get SD mid week to take her to her dentist appt. BM apparently feels its asking too much for her to do any of this because we moved further away, 20 miles vs 5 is a real hardship for someone who works 3 days a week.
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I wonder if SD is starting to see thru BM's manipulation
We got thru this weekend's blow up and SD is being cooperative, for now. She was actually talking about the discussion in one of her classes last night at dinner. I can't say that I agreed with everything she said but I kept most of my disagreements to myself, only adding antidotes and comments that encouraged her to think about other perspectives.
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