Hi all - to give you a little background...I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year and a half now. He has two children from previous marriages (one from each ex-wife). He can't have anymore children and that is fine with me b/c I don't want any of my own. I adore his two and they have taken very well to me. I definitely consider us a family and we'll eventually get married, but we're not in a rush. We have no real problems out of the first ex-wife. I've met her, we talk and she allows me to pick up/drop off her son from school and her house when its time for him to visit us.