Hello All,  I'm new to this as in I've NEVER blogged before.  I'm sure that what I'm about to share with complete strangers will bring on criticism but I'm here looking for genuine constructive advice from anyone who's ever been in my situation so please, no haters, just helpers with experience would be be so very appreciated...  A bit of background - To my heartbreak, I do not have children of my own, I was never able.  My husband has a 24 year old daughter and unfortunately, as hard as I have tried, we just aren't close.  I came into her life when she was 18 and already in college and spo