I dont know what to do. As much as I try I cant seem to love them. I have two kids and my husband has two. My husband's kids treat my daughter really bad and it hurts me. He doesn't do anything about it. I get so happy when they don't come over or we dont have them. The oldest doesnt like us he has established it before that he wishes my kids were never born. I am going crazy and I feel like this feeling can destroy our marriage.