I have been married for a couple years to my husband whom has had full custody of his son (now 4 years old) since he was a few months old. I myself have a 14 year old daughter whom I have full custody of. Both children live in the home with us full time and neither child sees their other biological parent (dead beat mom and dead beat dad). The problem is, my stepson is incredibly hyperactive, unable to make friends, aggressive, and NEVER listens.