As a stepmother and a BM I must apologize to all of the stepmothers out there that are dealing with hateful BMs. I posted my blog on the advice of my stepchildren's BM. She said that this was a wonderful site and it might be a good idea to let people know that BMs are not all that bad that some stepmoms are horrible also. We happen to get along quite well. We talk daily and our husbands encourage our friendship. She knew what I was going through and thought that this site would help others to understand that there are two sides to every story.