Why is it so difficult to like your boyfriends kids? All they care about is milking him. I used to see a future with this guy, but down the line i realized if i had kids with him, his kids will then start using my children. These kids only care about one thing, them. He had them very young, worked his a$$ off to give them everything. I have already explained all this to him. he desperately wants to get married, but i can't imagine having these kids in my house. A lot has happened through these several  years where i don't trust these kids anymore.