Came home Friday night and there was a note in BM's handwriting on my coffee table. DH was putting SD to bed so I picked it up and read it. It was the Serenity Prayer. Later that night, I asked DH about it. He said that SD was feeling anxious (she gets nervous/anxious A LOT to the point of feeling sick or not being able to sleep. Possibly an anxiety disorder?) so BM gave her the prayer to read when she felt that way.

My last blog was about BM continuing to visit my DH at his business and his unwillingness to do anything about it. My final word on the matter to him was that he needed to write an e-mail to her stating that these visits were inappropriate and needed to stop. I wanted to see the email and watch him send it to be sure he did so. I also wanted to see it to be sure it wasn't full of crap like "my wife said..." or "your visits make my wife uncomfortable....". Finally, we are still waiting on her to sign the CO that was read into the court record last January.

DH forwards an email from BM to me yesterday afternoon:

"Since you had SD last year for Halloween, it would only be fair if I had her this year. Especially taking into account that you haven't signed our agreement since June which would have cleared this issue up. Our proposed time was X to X every other year. Again, since you had last year, this year would be mine. That's just fair. You can come with if you'd like :)"

And it's a doozy. Actually, how DH found out is the best part.

You can see my old blogs for the whole story but basically, BM called DH a couple of weeks ago to inform him that she had broken up with BF and would be moving into a new apt. with SD. Since then she has been sending emails, calling and visiting my DH at his business.