Avalin's Blog
Would I be happier when I have my own kids?? What's happens with the skids???
I am pondering of having kids, but I'm worried of how my skids would react to it because my children would definitely look different from the skids. I wonder if I'll be happier if I have my own kids that I can discipline and care for in my own way without having to stress and tell myself all the time that they are my skids not my biological child. So if anyone knows or have their own baby already please let me know. I intend to start a new life after my wedding but still want the skids to be part of our lives too.
What do you do in this kind of situation as a stepmom??
Recently BM finally found a guy she hangs out with and now she is starting to abandon her children like not being there when I drop the kids off so that she'll get one more night with this new guy. I feel like a slave until one day I said to her that since she primary custodial parent it's her responsibility to find a babysitter but she says she's too poor but she won't go to work or skip out on work. She is getting a huge amount of money from us and now she is treating me like a slave.