Quick history. Bf and I have been dating for over 1-1/2 years, living together for 1. We talk about the future and marriage. He has 2 kids, 13G and 9B, they are "our kids" to him. They live far away, so he gets them during the summer and alternating major holidays. I love his kids, they love me, we have a great relationship. My parents don't like my bf. Too much baggage with the kids, he comes from a poor family, he is in the military and will retire soon but they look down on him for not having a real job, not making a lot of money, etc. How do I know this?