My step daughter is really a very good kid. She has all the same challenges that most teens do, my question to all is where do I draw the line on letting her "get away" with things. My husband, dad, works nights on the weekends, so I am the one in charge. i have caught her a few times lieing, sneaking out of the house, and drinking. We have talked all together about these issues and she has been making a great effort lately. but tonight she came home at 11 as requested, but went straight to bed with her friend who was staying over.