This has been quite the weekend for BM issues. Friday night her and I had the nice little "chat" which made me think she was even crazier than before and then yesterday, she told my boyfriend that even though SS4 is coming to live with us full time for awhile that she wants half of what we give her for CS now because "SS is going to need a place to stay when he comes back". So pretty much she wants us to pay her rent her rent every month while SS is living with us. Supposedly my bf told her no way and was really unpleasant to her on the phone about it.

BM has apparently been giving my boyfriend a hard time about coming to see our house. We've been here for about a year now. Any time he needs to pick up SS he just goes over there and picks him up and drops him off. She asked to come see house the first week we moved in and I said no. Am I being a baby about this? yes. I realize this so please don't leave the "oh how can you be so immature comments" because yes I realize this is immature. I don't want her in my house because all she wants to do is snoop.

Does anyone have any advice regarding MA child support laws? While BM undergoes some surgery for the summer, we will be having SS4 full time. She gets free health insurance for him and due to her situation, she is also getting free child care for the next year. She told my fiance that if she gets social security she won't need him to pay her child support, if she doesn't then she thinks that we would still have to pay her child support, just not as much. That sounds like complete BS to me. If we have him full time, there is no reason that we should be paying her anything.

Well I knew I would be back on here at some point this weekend. Last night was the benefit for BM and I grudgingly agreed to go to show my support. It was a pretty drama-free evening, except she did tell me she wanted to get everyone together for breakfast the next day and she would talk to my fiance's mom. I was like whatever. I assumed it would just be breakfast with her and her boyfriend, my fiance's son, and my fiance's family (and him of course). So we get to Ihop and what do we find out, but her parents were also invited to breakfast.