My husband and BM talk to each other on the phone everyday only when they are at work away from their significant others. And since my husband is on my phone bill, I can see when they call and text and he will still erases texts and calls off of his phone and lies about it, umm hello I can see it and he knows it. Which if I question him about it and he actually acknowledges it, he will say he doesn't tell me b/c I gripe about it...well that is true but she has written in her journal she still has feelings for him and her kids saw it and asked MIL if they were getting back together.