I'm trying to get to the bottom of / understand / resolve issues that my fiance has with my 8 year old daughter. I seperated with bm when my daughter was 4 and have been with my fiance for roughly 3 years. We have lived together for the past year. bm is very fond of my fiance, as is my daughter . I typically have my daughter 50% of the time. Many of my fiancee’s issues were valid, and I / we took action to correct them, whether it was about behavior or setting boundries, or schedules.