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MORALS AND IDEALS

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Submitted by BUTTERLY1982 on Thu, 06/27/2013 - 2:43pm

What reaction do you give when an instruction is ignored and not enforced by DH?

How do you cope with / what do you do when something goes completely against your views and morals of parenting (or just in general) ?

GOING MAD...... FAST

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Submitted by BUTTERLY1982 on Mon, 06/24/2013 - 3:00pm

Where do you start.... little things that used to be "cute" now make me want to rip his head off... i am losing it fast... i am now sitting in the sitting room and he and dh are in the room (in MY bed) listening to music when i really want to curl up and get warm. (yeah, i know my fault...boundries... one advantage i can sit and write this..... Blum 3 )

I WANT MY LIFE BACK!!!

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Submitted by BUTTERLY1982 on Wed, 06/12/2013 - 6:35am

I want to sit and eat the popcorn without sharing, I don’t want to hide the chocolates away, I don’t want to share my stuff and I most certainly don’t want to explain myself to an 11 year!!!!

Am I being unreasonable?

My ss11 moved in with us permanently in April, and man, have I had issues adjusting. Although, I don’t think it so much the adjusting, as it is having the responsibility, which I chose NOT to have, by not having children!!!

I am mediator between him and DH – normally taking skid’s side!