My SD9 has been with my husband and I since she was 2. Her mother left her with him and just recently came back into her life about a year ago. We had her full time up until she came back and now it's jsut every other week. He never sees any wrong in anything she does but yet wants to discipline our 3 year old allllllllll the time. I tell him it's not fair to treat them differently although I still support him disciplining our son if he's being bad. Seems as if my husband wants our son to be more independent than his daughter which makes absolutely no sense to me.