I am not sure where to even begin. I will be 27 this month and have a 9 year old step daughter, 4 year old son from my previous relationship and an almost 2 year old son with my husband. My stepdaughter was 5 when my husband and I got together. We got full custody of her when she was 7 years old. Her mother is severely bi-polar and needs to be heavily medicated from having an episode. We have been to court non stop, been in yelling and screaming matches with her and everything and I mean everything has been a fight.