I guess it was because I was raised in a more strict environment that I had things imposed upon me. Things such as chores around the house, a job to pay for insurance before driving a car and back then, if I wanted designer jeans I needed to do household laundry for 3 weeks and clean the house to EARN my Guess Jeans (yes, I'm showing my age). Although my SS relocates to 'paradise' and sleeps until whenever he wishes, wakes up and plays his video game all day, complains if the pantry is missing peanut butter, soda or any of his other favorite snacks.