What is she thinking?
BM has two other children with her new DH.
She is a SAHM and is as footloose and fancy free as one can get when you have small kids.
SS7 is in school, and only has a few weeks off where he can spend extended time with his BM.
Of those five weeks - BM gets 4, or rather we've let her have them so SS7 can spend time with her.
November passed without incident, December she handed him back 2 days early, Feb. break she's handing him back 4.5 days early and in April she's giving him back three days early.
All this while SS7 constantly says he doesn't get enough time with his mom.
I don't know what to do or say to help him understand this when I don't get it myself.
We have had the schedule since August. She knew when she would have him for over 4 months now. Why would she book trips specifically when he's on break. Why not before, or after ... during is just cruel.
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Sounds like my SD17's
Sounds like my SD17's "perfect" bio-daddy. He constantly sends SD17 back early from his visitation, and he NEVER gets her any extra. But don't say anything about that to SD17, because her bio-daddy is "perfect" no matter what!
OMG...My son always comes
OMG...My son always comes back early. Now that he is older some weekends (which is all dad gets, everyother) he doesn't even go. It should be Friday pick up from school sunday at 8 get dropped off....Its more like Friday around 7PM picks him up at home, he sleeps out sat at friends or families and Sunday drop off at noon....Glad he is so important to him....