In serious need of some advice. I've been married to my husband for 10 years. I have four children from a previous marriage and he has 1 daughter. My children have always been on the scene and of course live with us. 
My husbands daughter was hardly ever in contact - we have met up with her 5 times in the time together as she is not local. I have always pushed for them to have a relationship however they were both quite happy as they were. She is now 28 years old.