Homeless Toxic Troll updates

So, last night, as we were having some adult time alone, eating and laughing, etc., DH gets a text from Munchkin who is supposedly with her mother, as its her visitation. They were moving.

"Im coming over with all my stuff".

So - She brought over 5 bags full of her things from the knarly cock-roach apartment. Without any communications at all.

They found a temporary home for their rabbit.

No word about where Feral Forger will land, just that Toxic Troll is in fact staying with her sister in another town, in a 1 bedroom apartment.

And Munchkin is with us for an as-yet-to-be-determined date sometime off into the future.

Stil, with no communications to DH about ANYTHING.

She basically dumped her child on our doorstep.Toxic Troll came up to my doorstep with some bags. I just looked at her from the doorway, and pointed, and said "you can leave those there".

She glared at me and said nothing. As it should be. it felt really great to stand there in MY home telling the Troll that she cannot come into MY home, my sanctuary.

Later we all 3 had a big group hug, where I told munchkin Im glad shes with us...and I love her.

To be continued!

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Hugs Clove!

Always some f@ckery going on with the BM.....

Yep

I want her with us of course, just trying to anticipate what new and unusual boundaries will be broken by TT.

You're awesome and I'm so glad Munchkin has you and even appreciates you. FF may have had a better life had you been a part of it. I know Munchkin comes with struggles & challenges too. Hope it works out for you guys.

Did you leave the cockroach bags outside? We moved in to an apartment with roaches and when we moved out we had to shake stuff out as we were packing and left things behind. Wasnt worth bringing it. Is TTs sister aware of the roach infestation that may be arriving at her home?

Thank you!!!

I often wonder if I have had any kind of affect on kiddo, but Feral Forger was 15 yo when I came into her life. She treated me badly the entire 3 years I was in her life. Shes 20 now - sadly shes not fixable because she doesnt really want to change anything.You can only suggest, encourage and discourage.

They put the stuff in bags which are in the garage.

Should we bug bomb those bags?

Eh. Dont know about TT sister and dont care - shes a degenerate herself.

FF was too old. My sd17 was

FF was too old. My sd17 was 13ish when i met her and sd 20 was 16. There was no chance of removing the toxic of BM. The only one I got to was SS11. He was 7 when I met him 9 when we got married. Ive made some positive changes for him and SS12 almost 13, but even ss12 has too much of the BMs toxicity.

As far as the bags, be careful. I dont know if bombing is necessary. I know you can kill lice by putting it garbage bags. We used to do that when i was teaching if we had lice in the classroom . Thats what google is for. Im sure you can find out.

Wishing you all the best. My

Wishing you all the best. My sd's BM became homeless when sd was in first grade. It was a ticky time. The unpridictability of it all, not wanting to make things worse but also wanting to protect sd, protect her views of her mother and keep her safe. We did not know where BM was staying so SD was imagining that she was sleeping in one of the (sadly) many homeless encampments in our town. We did not know anything either, so just had to reasure her as best we could.

I'm glad that you two are there to provide some stability for Munchkin.

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