my bf was served with papers yesterday from bm's lawyer, a motion for suspension or termination of visitation. she claims she knows "through conversations with her daughter" that not only is my bf using marijuana both recreationally and while visiting his daughter, but also that he takes sd to parties where alcohol is being consumed and there is little to no adult supervision, and that he has left her in a hotel room with strangers. she says that she fears for the safety of her daughter if the father's visitations aren't terminated or supervised by her or someone of her choice.