WANTED TO GET YOU FEEDBACK ON MY LIFE DILEMMA:

I am a stepmom for the last 2 years. I am also a lawyer and an artist who moved to the burbs with my husband a few years ago from urban life. I am 9 years younger than my husband, who has 2 kids (9 yr old girl and 11 yr old boy) from his previous marriage. Ex lives nearby. We have 1 week on, 1 week off custody. Needless to say, ex is a wack job, but we have a fine relationship and I have a great relationship with the kids.