Well, I am here hoping to get some positive effective advice. Let me break it all down. I am a 35 yr old mother of 4. A 16, 14, 13 year old and 9 month old. My first 3 kids are from a prior marriage (now happily divorced & engaged to a wonderful man). In 2011, I had a brain tumor removed, got pregnant in July 2011, had a severe car accident in Dec. 2011 (while pregnant) drove while having seizures and went down a 30 foot drop. I walked away w/baby ok & no broken bones. In Jan. 2012 went back into hospital, due to my sack rupturing and was there for 2 weeks. My fiancé made sure my 3 kids were fully taken care of, when none of our famalies offered any help. In July 2011, my fiancé was hit by a young girl. The girl knocked him off his bike and then ran over his right wrist, which now he is permanently disabled. Through the beginning challeneges of our relationship, my 16 & 14 yr old have been and remain supportive and loving. But, my 13 year old, HATES my fiancé and writes daily letters about the whole family. I have tried counseling, but due to financial reasons, we cannot afford it. I'm seeking advice on how to approach and handle the situation. My 13 year old will not open up and communicate with me, stays isolated, aggressive and angry at anyone in the home. My 13 year old is an A student w/a high GPA. But, I do not want my 13 yr old to go down the wrong path, due to that she dislikes everyone in her home. I am at such a loss, I didn't think I would ever be doing this, but I'm a committed, dedicated mother and know my divorce was hard enough for my kids to handle. Especially, due to them feeling abandon by their biological father, who still to this day, shows little signs of involvement.

Cosmicldaybug