Well, I am here hoping to get some positive effective advice. Let me break it all down. I am a 35 yr old mother of 4. A 16, 14, 13 year old and 9 month old. My first 3 kids are from a prior marriage (now happily divorced & engaged to a wonderful man). In 2011, I had a brain tumor removed, got pregnant in July 2011, had a severe car accident in Dec. 2011 (while pregnant) drove while having seizures and went down a 30 foot drop. I walked away w/baby ok & no broken bones. In Jan. 2012 went back into hospital, due to my sack rupturing and was there for 2 weeks.