Summary....

She's almost 19, acts like a 10 yo still. Didn't bathe till this morning,  wash her face or brush her teeth. I know this because the towels I left for her were untouched until this morning. The day she leaves. I told DH the reason her hair looked so dark is because it was so dirty.

She gave DH a pack of dried seaweed that he likes for his gift (suspect it was from BMs cupboard). I got nothing. She gave us a house gift of two trivets she made in high school. Which is ok but obviously out of convenience.

She's leaving in about 1.5 hours, only now came out of her room at 1:45. DH asked her if she was hungry. she was, but "Didn't know what there was to eat." We have PLENTY. She ate an apple. She continues to talk in this awful, soft, slurry voice and is difficult to understand. Even DH has had to ask her to repeat herself. 

DH is about done, is a bit angry, and is going to talk with her soon, on the way to drop her off, and try to arrange to see her again (she's in the area for another several weeks). I've hardly had a conversation with her, it's impossible since she hardly responds. I caught her looking daggers at me at one point, who knows why.

Also found out DH was going to give estranged OSD21 an expensive gift, but he changed his mind and will return it. GOOD FOR HIM. I supported him in that decision once he told me. He's sending a MUCH less expensive one instead. Whew. And YAY for him realizing it wasn't a good decision. 

Next year we're going away alone for sure!

I was going to abstain from alcohol tonight after the gym, but nope, I'm going to open a good bottle of wine to celebrate alone time again. I think DH will join me.