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Responsibility to step kids (and grand kids) after divorce?
I am really struggling with this. Not outwardly and directly. My SD is dead (I was the closest to her). youngest SS lives with his grand mother. Oldest SS lives about 25-30 mins away. He has 3 kids that call me Papa.
I love the grand babies (the inocents) but I dont ever see them. SS never comes to see me or calls. I do call him and stop by to see him/them, just not very often.
Divorce Final 9/19/16
Divorce was final Monday. I dont really have any feelings one way or the other at this point. She still wants to be friends. I could care less if she gets run over by a bus.
Talked with my son the other day and he voiced that he was happy he and I were together, and that things are much better without BM there. It was very satisfying to hear. I still go to my grandsons football games and birthday party (they are step to me, but my sons nephews). So nice to go home and live my own life.
Now what to do next .... }:)
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BM and SD putting on a show
Football on Friday. My BS(15) is really good. I mean he is a tank. He and I have been working together since 2008. In the gym etc. I coached all his sports until his freshman year of high school and even then his freshmen coaches asked me to help.
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Insanity, Cancer, and divorce ...
So I guess I just need to vent and get this all out. Its killing me inside. Some info on me: 39/m/ 1 child by blood(15yo), 3 step children (sd26, ss20, ss29) and 2 step grandchildren, (2 sons that we basically adopted, sd boyfriend and his brother).
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