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Submitted by daisy0202 on Fri, 12/23/2011 - 12:36pm

Well DH just called...Now SD has not seen BM all week...Guess SD called DH at work from school all upset BM called her yelling and screaming at her for what not even sure then told her to get used to new boyfriend that she just started dating because he is moving in with her....Well SD said of course I will not get used to anything and I am staying with dad full time :jawdrop: ...OK I am being a little selfish here I know....and i know she should not be with BM....BUT OMFG!!!!!! FULL TIME.....SERIOUSLY???????

regarding yesterdays post

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Submitted by daisy0202 on Wed, 12/21/2011 - 9:50am

I read all the comments regarding my post yesterday and some were rather shocking. I did not come onto this site for any drama what so ever. I have plenty of my own at home. I simply had a question and was not knocking anyone with the same issues I have with bio families. My comment was simply getting along is easier. I completely understand in certain cases it is impossible with BM being a crazy nut. My comment went towards those's who make life alot harder. Did not expect to be told off. If I offended anyone on here in any way I do apoligize. My intent was not that at all.

Dont get it!!!

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Submitted by daisy0202 on Tue, 12/20/2011 - 1:51pm

OK so I read everyones blog and not understand some that one parent has a specific time and day to call their children. I am divorced and my X can call his children anytime, anyday he wants. Why would people be such idiots to not let there child talk to there mother or father when they want...People grow up ready!!! Getting along with your X is in the best interest of the children. Believe me my X is a complete Douche but he is and always will be my childrens father and unfortunatley there is nothing I can do about that, so get along is my only option.

Officially Disengaging

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Submitted by daisy0202 on Tue, 12/20/2011 - 8:23am

Have to vent..Thanks for listening everyone!!!!

Well this morning DH husband told me he can not keep SD16 away from BM so we will see what happens next week....

OK ? If your child is being hurt, has anxiety, cries alot, would you send them to the person who makes all these symptoms worse? NOOOOOO!!!!! But not my DH...He says BM will be calling soon to smooth talk her and what can he do..It is up to SD...

So agravated

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Submitted by daisy0202 on Mon, 12/19/2011 - 12:56pm

So DH calls me on my lunch to tell me he has decided not to say anything to BM...SD16 will not be going to see her at all this week and SD can tell her mother this.....AHHHHHH WHAT????? I do not think this is SD16 job to tell crazy BM that she is not going because she needs to get her act straight.

Happened again

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Submitted by daisy0202 on Mon, 12/19/2011 - 9:21am

So weekend was great...No children except my oldest home from college and he was out with friends all weekend....Had lots of fun with DH, it was great...Picked up SD 16 for cookie day Sunday we had a great day...she was nice, fun, laughing, dancing to christmas songs it was so nice...Brought her home and just relaxed...Then the call came in....11:15 last night we get a call from again a crying SD who is fighting with BM once again...Well after picking her up of course DH and I couldnt go back to sleep till like 2am so this morning I said "what are you going to do about this one now?" and h

well this weekend should be good

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Submitted by daisy0202 on Thu, 12/15/2011 - 11:45am

We have no children this weekend...Well except my oldest who is comming home from college today, but he is no trouble so its all good. SD is going to her BM, god help us all, I hope that works out OK...I am not happy she is going due to what happened last time but shes not my child and I really have no say. Although I am happy about the alone time my husband and I will have. We have a Christmas party on Friday night and a Christmas party on Sat. night...Should be a great weekend....Just the thought that we will be able to talk without SD16 there is making me happy already.

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