This was my first vacation with SD, and we had to sleep in the same room with her and everything, and I'm burnt out and sick of everything and absolutely ready to be home (we're on our way home now). I told him, "I want to be home, watch movies with boobs and blood, have loud sex and swear whenever I want..." and he said "Well, that's a huge laundry list of complaints." and then says "I hate to break this to you, but if you're going to be with me, then you don't get your life to yourself all the time."  As if this was something that I didn't already know.

SO does this every time. Tonight, we took SD to a movie (Muppets - highly recommend it!), and so we weren't available when BM called for the night. Obviously we couldn't stop what we were doing for her to call- we'd decided then that SD could always just call after the movie. Even so, DURING THE MOVIE, he responded to her text "Please have SD call me" by writing back, JUST to let her know that SD was watching a movie and that she would call her afterward. BM always does that. As if we wouldn't have SD call at our earliest convenience. We have a life with SD, too!