As I said before I am raising my 2 ss's who are 21 and 17. The 21 year old ss, left college to enroll into the Marines, that was 6 months ago. The Marines are holding up the process of going to boot camp, because he has a wart on his foot. So, not only do I have a 17 year old ss who will not talk to me at all period. The 21 year old ss also, will not talk to me.