Six years ago I met a man while out with friends,he was amazing! We talked for hours that night, he told me what he did and all about himself.The next morning he called and asked if he could come back to see me,I was elated.That day he told me all about his family, his sisters(he's one of twins)and brother,his parents,his kids (three boys and a girl) and lastly his estranged wife(separated but still in the same house).Red flags immediately went up and alarm bells rang but I didn't heed them, after all we had only just met and were not getting into a relationship.