I wrote a previous post on my SO leaving and why. Most of you said to leave him... but I'm just not ready to do that.

So for those of you who don't know, my SO moved to Texas. He moved to Texas to work with his mother in her new restaurant. He is the new GM there and apparently he has 1/3 ownership of that restaurant. He moved because he couldn't find work here, and because he was so tired of the city life.
I have stayed here in Florida in our apartment, and he is living with his mother and her husband while he gathers up enough money to get his own place IF this restaurant takes off. When/if he finds a place, he wants me to move in with him.

Sidenote: I didn't go with him because we would have not been able to live with his mother in the tiny second room they have. His mother (who hasn't met me yet, after being with SO for 2 1/2 years) somehow for some reason is opposed to our relationship. She told SO to move on and find a girl in Texas, and SO told me he doesn't want to find someone new. He wants me.

Anyway... everyone in my family is opposed BM's parents are completely against it and were willing to bring buy him a flight home. They are pretty much like parents to us. Why? It's another story. But they do love us and want the best for us. Everyone is upset with his decision making.

A few days after being in Texas, he told me he wanted to come home. He told me to call BM's parents to wire him money to come home. Next day he changes his mind and tells me that he wants to really try this restaurant out and that he was going to ask him mom if I could go live with them, because he couldn't take being away from me. She says yes, and I start looking for flights and putting things online for sale. The next night he sends me a text saying that his mother and her husband changed their minds and don't want us living there.

I'm so sick of all this back and forth. Everyone knows that his mother is putting messed up ideas in his head just to get him to work at that restaurant. He works 13 hours a day 7 days a week right now, with no pay at the moment. I'm just livid and hurt. Because I'm sitting here waiting for something to happen. He doesn't get that. He doesn't have the time to think what he's doing because he is so busy working. But I talked to BM's parents today and they said they were going to talk to him to see if they can change his mind and make him come home.

My SO can't live without his kids. We all know it. We are waiting how long it's going to take him to get so homesick and miss the kids so much that he will want to come home

I'm not asking all of you to tell me if I should be with him or not, because I know I want to be with him. I love him and I love his kids. I don't want him being away from them. And although being in Texas with him alone... and it being just us without the skids sounds very tempting, I still want him here. I want him to be able to raise his children like he has to.

I guess I'm just asking for support. Asking how I can change SO's mind. I hate being in this limbo.

I just want him to come home...