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Is it bad that I love my pets more than skids?

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Submitted by .Em. on Sat, 01/18/2014 - 9:51pm

I've had one of my cat's for 9 years (before SO) and the other for little over a year. I honestly feel like I love my pets more way than the skids. Is that bad? Please tell me I'm not the only one, because then I would feel really horrible. But my cat's are like my babies (and he knows this). The only babies I have for now.
SO isn't really fond of my cat's, but he puts up with them because they're mine. But I feel the same way as he does towards my cats, when I have the skids around.

Mixed feelings about BM.

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Submitted by .Em. on Wed, 10/02/2013 - 3:33pm

Recently I have been battling on how to feel about BM. She has never had a problem with me, we have never gotten into any arguments or anything. Infact... everything is perfectly fine between us. But, when it comes to her and my SO, that's when I start getting angry at her. She bitches and complains about SO if he does any little thing wrong. Which makes me mad and hate her at that moment. Or if SO starts complaining about her, how she's doing this and this wrong or what she's not doing. That angers me as well. But when it comes to talking to her and being civil...

He's leaving...

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Submitted by .Em. on Thu, 09/26/2013 - 2:29am

So, I found out a couple of days ago that my SO is going to Texas to work as a manager for a restaurant that his mother owns. Mind you, we live in Florida. He is leaving because he has been unemployed for a few months and can't seem to find work here.

He doesn't know when he is coming back. Basically leaving me here with all bills to pay, home etc., and also leaving skids behind with BM.

So... why is BM here?

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Submitted by .Em. on Sun, 09/22/2013 - 10:33pm

SO has always said... "She was put in my life to have those 2 kids and raise them" Ha. Um... Those 2 kids were put in your life because neither of you were protected even though he knew he was never going to marry this woman and was sure she was not the one. Aaannd what did you get out of that? A constant bitch of a BM, always wanting it her way... oh AND those 2 beautiful kids.

Don't get me wrong, I love my skids Smile