I'm new to the place...but I have mixed feelings about telling him I'm blogging. I'm kind of damned if I do, damned if I don't. If I do...it's sure to cause an argument and if I know he's probably "secretly" reading it I won't be honest about my feelings. Let's face it, there are some things (and by things I mean anything pertaining to SS or BM) that are almost impossible to talk to him about. If I don't...I don't feel guilty, but I risk him finding out and then of course, that too will start a fight....haha