My mother in law is a piece of shit. She has always sided with the SK's even though she only sees them once or twice a year, and only if/when we took them to her, she has never visited us even though we are a 20 minute drive from her home. Her birth son, my DH, has tried to kindly tell her to stay out of it and to allow him to raise his kids the way he sees fit but her and her husband (my DH's stepdad) just won't stop. They have even become very nasty in phone calls, shockingly nasty.

But I know both of his kids will ignore him as usual this year so I've reserved a nice 4 day weekend at the beach. We leave Friday morning and return Monday night. I'm sure he'll get his usual short "happy fathers day" text but I'm sure the pain will be lessened with a nice drink in his hand laying on the beach. He has to be hurt deep down that we have not seen nor heard from either kid since Christmas. His son never even thanked us for his birthday gift and we had to ask his sister if he even got it (mailed).

My best friend in the world is dying, cancer has eaten her body and she has been sent home under hospice care with about 2 weeks left on this earth. My stepdaughter offered to come over and make dinner last night since I was gone all day to be with my friend. I offered to make a dessert, which I did on Friday night. Last night at around 4:00 p.m., my stepdaughter texted DH that she couldn't make it and we would have to reschedule but "don't eat the pie that Evil made"....I am running on sheer nerves at this point but that was the last straw. My insides started boiling.

Blech, DH's ex wife (mother of his two kids) is such a slob, I think I finally understand why SK's could never be bothered to help with housework. The one time I went with DH to pick the kids up for visitation I was afraid to walk into her home it was that gross. But she recently moved into a new home and you would think that would be better but I just saw a video that SD19 put up on Vine and SO DISGUSTING...there is a bag of garbage in the middle of the floor and every single table has a thick coating of dust. Sure explains a lot about the kids views on cleaning the house up. YUK!