I'm sure my situation isn't unique, however, I still would appreciate any help or support anyone could provide. I could really use some advice. My fiance and I are getting married next year. He has two boys. The oldest is 20 and the youngest is 15. His ex wife is a real pill. She was verbally abusive throughout the marriage and on occasion, physically. I am stuck between a rock and a hard spot. Since before the divorce was over, she has been filling their heads with the craziest stuff. She has gone so far as to write horrible things to my fiance under their oldest son's email name.