MY SD12 is with us full-time while her BM "clears her head". It's been 4 months now and 4 more months that I have to put up with this crap. It could be longer, because the schedule goes by what BM's therapist thinks she should do. The therapist thinks BM shouldn't have the daughter because...because...because...OK, nobody knows this answer because no one has asked WHY?!?! So, I'm putting my son to bed the other night, leave his room, go into my room and bathroom...my only sanctuary in the house...the only place that is MINE and here comes SD12 out of my bathroom. She needed to "shave her legs" and can't do it in her own bathroom because it is just a shower stall. Yes...she has her own bathroom. Turns out, she was told to use my bathroom and not the hall bathroom so she didn't wake up my kids. I don't care what the reason is, that's my bathroom and who I choose to share it with is my business. After the whole episode, I ended up having to scrub my tub because she left grimy hair in it. Like I don't do enough all day with a 2 year old and a newborn, I have to clean up her gross mess. I just can't take it sometimes. I do realize that if it were my own daughter, I wouldn't care one bit, I don't like SD and I don't want her around my stuff. Has anyone else felt like slapping their SKids because you just can't stand to look at them? She is lazy and a snob. In fact, at dinner tonight, she was talking about how her gym teacher is so "stupid" because she can't do a layup in basketball. Come on...the teacher is 50 years old and not a basketball player. I'm 31 and I couldn't do a layup...does that make me stupid. I'd love to see SD do a layup...I'd call her stupid. I don't even look at her anymore.