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Will she ever go away?!?!

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Submitted by Frankman925 on Mon, 01/12/2009 - 8:01pm

MY SD12 is with us full-time while her BM "clears her head". It's been 4 months now and 4 more months that I have to put up with this crap. It could be longer, because the schedule goes by what BM's therapist thinks she should do. The therapist thinks BM shouldn't have the daughter because...because...because...OK, nobody knows this answer because no one has asked WHY?!?! So, I'm putting my son to bed the other night, leave his room, go into my room and bathroom...my only sanctuary in the house...the only place that is MINE and here comes SD12 out of my bathroom.

Lazy SD12

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Submitted by Frankman925 on Sat, 01/03/2009 - 3:31pm

My SD12 is the laziest, most spoiled rotten girl I know! So far for Christmas break, she got to go to Chicago for a week and stay at the Four Seasons, shop and eat out at expensive restaurants. She got home and went skiing practically every day (at $60 a pop!), stayed up until dawn on New Year's Eve, and laid in bed in between. She has had no responsibilites around the house and hasn't even cleaned up dirty dishes in her room. She lost her ski jacket and cell phone, which BM ran out and got new ones without punishment or trying to find them.

We Are Paying Child Support!

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Submitted by Frankman925 on Tue, 12/16/2008 - 6:41am

A quick follow up to my last blog and to reply to SM#1...even though we've had SD12 full-time for the last four months and another four months, we still pay child support! It irks me every time I submit payment because I know where the money is going...hair appointments, pedicures, etc. My H won't go to court for full custody because he is earning much more money than he did at the time of the divorce (10 years ago). I know we would win now, but if BM came back in a year or two wanting custody again, we would get hammered on the child support.

4 More Months!

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Submitted by Frankman925 on Sun, 12/14/2008 - 3:33pm

My bratty SD12 has been with us full-time since August because her BM "just can't handle her" right now. January was my light at the end of the tunnel. The schedule was suppose to go back to normal...SD was suppose to go back to her BM's. Now, I find out that BM's therapist has concluded that she shouldn't have SD overnight until April! I have to have her 4 more months! I'm dealing with my own post-partum depression issues and having a 12 year old who thinks she is 22 is making it worse. She tries to play mommy to my 2 year old son and is nothing more than a lazy lying piece of crap.

General Hospital Part II

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Submitted by Frankman925 on Thu, 12/04/2008 - 6:06am

So, while the BM is off vacationing in France, I am stuck with her responsibility of taking care of SD12. I have a 2 year old and a newborn and the BM is "taking a break" after 4 months of a "break" here at home. I've talked to my H about it, but he loves is daughter, so it's a sticky subject. The BM has always had a problem with alcohol, so my H is happy the daughter is here as to avoid contact with the BM. The BM is selfish and a liar. My SD is also selfish and fast turning into a liar.

I'm living in General Hospital!

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Submitted by Frankman925 on Tue, 12/02/2008 - 2:45pm

This is my first time writing...I need to vent and see if there is anyone out there who is going through my situation! My SD12 recently came to live with us full-time after her mother (if that's what you can call her) decided she is just "too depressed" to take care of her. Meanwhile, the BM has been seen around town having dinner, drinks, shopping, etc. During this transition, I was pregnant with our 2nd child. I am now dealing with some postpartum depression along with a 12 year old girl who thinks she rules the world.