My husband just recently got full custody of his 13 year old daughter.  Her and I get a long fine, that's not the problem.  The problem is my husband's actions towards me.  He treats me like I'm a second wife and his daughter's needs definately come before mine.  I have two daughters from previous marriage that are grown and already moved out.  This has been very difficult for me to stay in the marriage when I feel like I don't have a "voice" in my own home.  When I talk to him about it, he gets VERY defensive and says that I'm just being crazy.  But I feel what I feel.  He's not loving and