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Gave money to Step-daughter and of course it backfired on me!!!

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On Halloween my step-daughter calls crying because her husband (separated) was supposed to give her gas money to take their kids trick or treating and at the last minute he says he is broke (of course, he is always broke). So my husband tells me this and stupid ass me feels sorry for the grand kids so I hand him $25.00 to go give her. He has no money because he doesn't work!! He hasn't had a job in 2 years and I have supported him the whole way because he is applying for disability.

How part of me was killed by SD and BM

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My step-daughter and I have always had an up and down relationship. We have had great times and really rough times. More often than not the rough times were due to the influence of the BM. This BM had been a pill head for almost as long as I have been in the picture which is 22 years. That is where I attribute most of my animosity towards her. She always picked her pills over her daughter. Her daughter would run to me for love and affection. The BM would start bribing with gifts and promises to the SD and she would then run back to BM.