Okay, so this has really been bugging me for about a week now.

Last week mil was mad at Dh and I because she thought that we were going to take an expensive trip before repaying some money that Dh had borrowed from her. She called me and lectured me as if I was ten years old, told me how dissapionted she was, demanded to be paid before we dared go anywhere then hung up on me. She completely took me by surprise and never gave me a chance to say a thing.

Just a quick vent. Why is it when my bd does something it is her signature move and when sd does the same thing it is clever??? Okay here goes. Yesterday bd was home alone for a bit and used the coffee grinder to powder sugar. Bd learned this trick from sd. When it first happened and I was grumpy about it dh says "oh, that's clever." So when dh comes home and there is sugar in the grinder he asks my bd about it and she admits that she did it.

My Dh jumps through them regularly. I am really annoyed this morning. My Dh jumps through hoop after hoop to please his bd and ex wife. It just burns my ass. I am sick of saying anything because when I do I feel that he does not hear me at all and I end up feeling like my feelings don't matter, only bd's and ex's do. And anyway he just comes up with justification for his actions.
Am I wrong to expect that if my sd is at her mom's for the weekend that her mom should be the one who should be responsible for how she gets to and from places and not dh?

I haven't posted a blog lately. I just usually lurk and comment here and there. But I have a situation that has just floored me.
As I have posted in the past, my sd can be well...a challenge. I have taken a different approach with her. I just do not do the things I used to and have pretty much detached completly and let her dad deal with her. This has made my life much easier.
But I have to say that I do not get why dh and now mil just cave in to her whims.
If she actually DID something to deserve things that would be okay. Geez.
Okay, here goes.