I am definitely feeling blessed right now. FDH has been enforcing more and more discipline on the FSS's, now ages 14 and 16. He still sometimes treats my bios, age 11 and 13, as if they're older, but it isn't as frequent. We're getting the typical push-back from the FSS, especially the older one, who loves to ignore any adult who isn't saying what he wants to hear. My mantra is "I don't do favors for rude people", and that is what is getting me through this stage. That, and the fact that I know the FSS's are basically decent kids, who are unfortunately affected by their BM's PAS.